Nel Taylor Nel Taylor

I Don’t Know Why I Can’t Do It: Accommodating Pathological Demand Avoidance at Work

My phone buzzes at me and I look down to see a notification from my Tik Tok “People are noticing you! You have 12 new page views”. My stomach sinks and I ignore the good news. I had a good streak of social media success. I was posting frequently, gathering a following, and even had one semi-viral video circulating, but the last time I posted something I had to turn my air conditioning off to mute the background noise. I can feel my communications friend’s brains explode while they read this “Why?!?! Why aren’t you utilizing your social media? You should be posting at LEAST once a week!!!” The answer: A little (big) something called pathological demand avoidance.

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If I Could Put Sexworker On My Resume…
Nel Taylor Nel Taylor

If I Could Put Sexworker On My Resume…

How many times have you seen “Bachelor’s degree required” on a job posting and felt discouraged?

Seeing a college degree requirement on a job posting when the position doesn’t legally require a degree (if you’re hiring a veterinarian or a lawyer, you get a pass) doesn’t just tell me that I won’t get the job, it tells me about where an organization is in its equity journey. If I see a required degree on a job posting, I move on, even if I technically meet the requirements.

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